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The Effect of Instagram on the Self-Confidence of Women

      Scrolling through the average Instagram feed, one would think that everyone is leading a happy and carefree life based off of their perfectly edited photos of social gatherings, vacations, homes, and meals. With 400 million daily active users, as stated by Mark Zuckerberg, Instagram has become a trendy and popular app where people of all demographics come to share moments from their lives (Vatu). Among all those daily users, 65% are women which means that Instagram is a platform where many women feel comfortable expressing themselves (Mediakix). On any large social media platform, the users are subject to the consequences that may come from being exposed to strangers and judgement, the feelings of wanting to fit in, and trying to showcase themselves in a positive light. There are arguments on both sides of the spectrum claiming that Instagram is either incredibly unhealthy for women because it causes them to question their self-worth and body-image satisfaction or that it is a community that can encourage women and increase their self-confidence.

     Instagram is an app that is very popular specifically with teenage girls and young women which can be dangerous because it can be so easy for young women who are still becoming comfortable with themselves to 

start to question their self-worth when submerged in an unhealthy environment. Social media is now a place where many young people live a large part of their lives as they can interact with anyone at any time and connect with people around the world. According to a study in the Cyberpyschology, Behavior and Social Networking journal, the most common motivation for using Instagram is for social interaction such as keeping in touch with friends who are far away or to meet and connect with new people (Lee E, Lee J, Moon JH, Sung Y. 554). Online presences are now what young people are initially judged off of without actually having to meet the person and can be considered a substantial representation of who someone is. Because these social media accounts are what young people are identified by, they are held in high importance and a lot of energy and decisions can go into maintaining a positive online presence.

     According to an article in Time Magazine written by Kay Steinmetz, there are many “unspoken rules” on Instagram which provide guidelines for the ideal Instagram account. By surveying a group of girls aged 13 to 24, it was found that many girls strive to have a lot of followers, have witty captions, remove photos that don’t get enough likes, post at a certain time of day, and even make fake accounts to like their own pictures in some cases (Steinmetz). If users do not comply with these rules, they can be subject to judgment and criticism as many of the girls stated that bullying is a very common occurrence on Instagram even if it isn’t through the app but just gossip that is inspired by the actions on the users’ accounts. It was even found in a study in the Journal of Psychosocial Research on Cyberspace that people go as far as to edit their appearances in order to “convey an ideal impression of their self rather than reality” which can encourage false perceptions of other users and make people strive to be like them although it is a heavily edited persona (Mascheroni G, Vincent J, Jimenez E.). Many girls take these measures to make themselves fit into the classic mold of what society considers beautiful such as having white teeth, unblemished skin, smooth hair, and a thin body because their self-confidence can be based on their physical appearance. Online self-presentation has become so important in the lives of teenagers that “girls link their social acceptance with the approval of their self-presentation, thus reconfiguring the number of likes received to the pictures they share online as symbolic tokens of social inclusion” (Mascheroni G, Vincent J, Jimenez E.). If girls don’t reach the number of likes that they want it can trigger feelings of dissatisfaction and insecurity with themselves. This obsession with likes is one of the most problematic aspects of Instagram as it is seen throughout many studies that for many girls gauge their self-worth by the number of likes they get. 

     So much effort is put into maintaining a presentable account that it can almost become a competition and make girls envious of other users’ online personas and make them feel inferior in comparison to others. An example of a normal teenager who is envied by many young girls just because of her Instagram account is Lilli Hymowitz, a 16-year-old girl who lives in New York City. She has thousands of followers whom she entertains and captivates by posting provocative selfies, exciting photos of herself at parties, her fashion, and her friends. Some of her followers were quoted to say they felt like they knew details of her life and wanted to be friends with her despite never actually meeting her in real life. Through her Instagram account, Hymowtiz is able to portray herself in any way she chooses as she is able to edit her pictures and stage them as she pleases without her followers knowing what went on behind the photo. In reality, it was stated that she actually resembles the average 16-year-old girl who just has a small group of friends but she is able to enhance her presentation through social media and make people envious of what they think she possesses (Wiedeman). Following these other users who seem to live extravagant lives can be damaging to the self-confidence of girls because they view their lives as inferior to the people they follow. Following strangers on Instagram “may trigger assumptions that these photos are indicative of how the people in them actually live [which] make people more vulnerable to judging themselves in relation to the 

assumed (but often unrealistic) lives of others, which can trigger feelings of distress” (Lup K, Trub L, Rosenthal L. 248). Instagram is different from other social media sites such as Facebook because following people doesn’t have to be reciprocal which makes it easier to follow more strangers. It was found in a study that “at higher levels of strangers followed, greater Instagram use was associated with greater depressive symptoms” because it is easier to feel inferior to a stranger who only posts the best and most glamorous moments in their lives (Lup K, Trub L, Rosenthal L. 248).

Women are constantly being exposed to mainly the same types of bodies and looks in mainstream media and this lack of diversity can be very damaging to a women’s body-image and self-confidence.

     Instagram is now full of “thinspiration” and “fitspo” accounts which promote thin and ultra-athletic physiques which are incredibly hard to attain for the average body type. Instead of focusing on internal health, these accounts gauge success by a women’s physical appearance although it is not physically possible for some women to reach these goals which makes them engage in drastic and unhealthy diets and workout regimens. Most women follow these types of accounts in order to gain motivation to keep working hard but find that they actually just make them obsess about their bodies and make them feel hopeless and discouraged about their efforts (Schreiber).  While conducting a study in Psychology Today, it was found that women who were satisfied with their bodies before became less confident and secure after looking at pictures of thin and muscular women that are advertised in mainstream magazines and on popular social media accounts (Schreiber). In another study in the article “Sex Roles,” it was found that using social networking sites increases appearance pressures and appearance investment which can also lead to an increase in cosmetic surgery desire among women (Vries, Dian, et al. 286). These pressures put on women to fit into a certain mold created by this appearance-centered society are causing them to make drastic and sometimes unhealthy changes to their bodies in an attempt to feel more confident while being compared to models and edited figures.

     In addition to “fitspo” accounts, there are accounts that go a step further and promote anorexia and other extremely unhealthy lifestyles. These accounts and their followers claim that instead of eating disorders being related to mental illness, they are simply lifestyle choices (Marcus S. 1). Although pro-anorexia accounts are much more extreme than the “fitspo” ones, they still promote the same message: that being very thin should be the ultimate goal, not being and feeling healthier. These accounts use photos of extremely thin women in order to try and encourage women to keep working in order to someday look like the model. Similarly to what Schreiber states in her article in Psychology today, these types of photos and obsession over bodies only make women obsess over their weight and appearance as opposed to actually helping them be healthier and happier.  An article in the International Journal of Health, Wellness & Society that discusses the links of social media to eating disorders states that “As young women will often aspire to be like celebrities, the media may have acted to promote eating disorders by linking the illness with women of beauty and status. The result of this has been that more ‘normal’ girls are becoming victims of this disorder as they believer that they are following a trend” (Verma, Arushi and Maria-Irini Avgoulas. 99). This gives more evidence to the notion that girls who are perfectly healthy start to see flaws in themselves when they are constantly comparing themselves to skinny celebrities and models.

     Another problem that critics find with Instagram is the idea that the app promotes hypersexualization of young girls and has made girls become provocative at a very young age in order to gain attention. On Instagram, the most-liked photos are usually ones that contain some type of sex-appeal which encourages girls who are eager for likes to post provocative photos for validation and instant-gratification. As written by Nancy Jo Sales in Time Magazine, “It’s to get the likes. Everything’s about the likes.” This increase in young girls posting sexual photos on social media has come with a wave of feminism that claims that the photos are just self-expression and sexual liberation but while some understand that, others slut shame the girls who post these types of pictures and subject them to cyberbullying. Some say that girls should be encouraged to express themselves and the problem boils down to double standards between genders as men are often praised for their bodies when they post shirtless pictures but women are berated. Girls and boys are held to different standards when it comes to posting on social media. As stated in the Journal of Psychosocial Research on Cyberspace, “Girls are socialized towards a post-feminist model of feminine desirability – one which wants them sexually attractive and active – and are at the same time more subject to peers’ moral judgements than boys, who are pushed to conform to an idealized masculinity centered on toughness and emotional disconnection (Mascheroni G, Vincent J, Jimenez E. 3). Although women know that posting provocative photos can leave them subject to bullying and harsh comments, they do it anyway because in the end, they are still gaining attention whether it be positive or negative (Sales).

     Although there are many sources that claim that Instagram is unhealthy for women, there are many cases in which women have found self-confidence and a community that they can identify with on Instagram. Just like there are pro-fitness and pro-anorexia accounts on Instagram, there are also accounts that support fat-acceptance and spread body positivity and the idea that self-confidence in one’s natural and healthy skin is more important than resembling the thin models that are commonly seen throughout social media. Many of these accounts that promote fat-acceptance “aim for acceptance of one’s body and reject the notion that one’s body is unacceptable if it does not conform to societal norms of being thin” (Marcus S. 2). They use hashtags such as “#bodypositive” and “#effyourbeautystandards” in order to encourage women to not feel the need to change themselves and take drastic measures in order to “fit in” to society. The hashtag “#effyourbeautystandards” was created by Tess Holiday, a social media star who is also the largest model to ever sign with a major modeling agency (Olya G, Tauber M.). She strives to use her social media following to normalize larger women on social media which is very important considering women in America are on average a size 16 yet those sizes are hardly ever seen or praised as beautiful in the media (Kimble). As discussed in the previous articles, it is extremely important for women to see other women like themselves so they know they are beautiful and don’t feel the need to change themselves to feel confident.

     Nicole Mejia is another social media star who promotes body-positivity. Although her account is fitness-oriented, she is unlike some other fitness accounts as she puts inner health before physical appearances. She says, “being fit isn’t about being a specific size, shape, or body fat percentage” and “her goal is to continue motivating women to drop the expectations that society places on them to fit into a certain mold” (Barrera. 32).  Instead of telling people they need to change themselves to be more beautiful, she motivates women to be the best versions of themselves and promotes self-acceptance. This idea is important because genetics play a huge part in what a body is capable of looking like so striving to look like an unattainable body type can be very unhealthy and can cause distress when results are not achieved (Barrera. 33). 

     Instagram has the power to be a community that brings people together and exposes them to enlightening and uplifting ideas. In an interview with Instagrammer Kobi Jae (@Kobi_Jae), she discusses how her self-confidence has grown after coming into contact with the fat activism and plus-size fashion communities on Instagram and other blogs. She even created an account called “@whatfatgirlsACTUALLYwear” in order to “promote people of all backgrounds and with all different styles, and to generate its own community of like-minded people” (Jae). In a survey exploring the benefits and disadvantages of social media, it was shown that a lot of participants agreed that social media introduces a sense of connection and can be a good place for support (Belangee, Susan, et al. 128). Jae also addresses the fact that social media and the obsession over online self-representation can be unhealthy for young girls in some instances but it also can be an empowering space. She agrees with the notion introduced in some of the prior articles that “celebrity worship culture” and the need to compare oneself to other users can be extremely damaging to self-confidence.

     Through this research, it can be said that Instagram has the capability of being a healthy environment depending on how it is used and the community that the user involves themselves with. The obsession over likes, envying of strangers, and the lack of diversity are all causes for concern when it comes to determining the effect of the app on a woman’s psychological being. When taken too seriously, it can be damaging to the self-worth and self-confidence of women but it can also be a platform used to encourage women of all races and sizes. Overall, the majority of research on this topic points towards Instagram being damaging to girl’s self-esteem because it puts a lot of focus on appearance as it is a fully visual app. 

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Kimble, Lindsay. “The Average American Woman is a size 16 According to a New Study.” People, 26 Sept. 2016. http://people.com/bodies/average-womens-clothing-size-16/. Accessed 27 February 2017.

Lee E, Lee J, Moon JH, Sung Y. Pictures speak louder than words: Motivations for using instagram. CyberPsychology, Behavior & Social Networking. 2015;18(9):552-556.

Lup K, Trub L, Rosenthal L. Instagram #Instasad?: Exploring associations among instagram use, depressive symptoms, negative social comparison, and strangers followed. CyberPsychology, Behavior & Social Networking. 2015;18(5):247-252.

Marcus S. Thinspiration vs. thicksperation: Comparing pro-anorexic and fat acceptance image posts on a photo-sharing site. Cyberpsychology. 2016;10(2):37-56.

Mascheroni G, Vincent J, Jimenez E. "Girls are addicted to likes so they post semi-naked selfies": Peer mediation, normativity and the construction of identity online. Cyberpsychology. 2015;9(1):30-43.

Olya G, Tauber M. PLUS-SIZE AND PROUD! (cover story). People. 2015;83(22):70-74.

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Reflection

After reading the prompt for project #2, I immediately knew I wanted to do something related to social media. As a freshman in college, I know first hand the effects that excessive social media can have on young women so I thought it would be interesting to read about actual studies and research that was conducted on the subject. The app that I find myself using the most and admittedly obsessing over is Instagram so it was pretty easy for me to decide what app to research the effects of. This was also a relevant topic for me because I know how hard it is to try and avoid comparing yourself to others on the internet and belittling yourself and so I wanted to find out some actual data about how this affects girls regarding suicide and depression rates. I have also always wondered what Instagram "famous" people go through and how strictly they monitor their account so I came up with the idea to interview an Instagrammer pretty quickly. The annotated bibliography was very helpful in figuring out the overall direction I wanted to go in with my essay as i got to read many sources from many different view points. I think that my existing knowledge of social media was reflected in my writing as I was able to provide information on how Instagram works and I could speak with confidence on my findings. 

Short Assignment #1:

Research Proposal:

I want to research something about Instagram and how it affects women because I admittedly have a slight obsession with my image on Instagram as do many other girls my age. Likes and comments, how my pictures look together on my grid, the timd of day of posting, and the individual photos having the perfect editing and filters are all things that are important to any girl who values her Instagram so finding the perfect picture to post is always an important decision. My potential research question is “Is Instagram making women have an unhealthy obsession with appearance and self-worth or is it promoting self-confidence?” Instagram is a platform that many women now feel comfortable posting photos of themselves and getting likes and complements in return but sometimes the need for likes and gratification can become overpowering. I am going to explore this topic by reading studies and articles that focus on how social media affects specifically younger women and the damages that obsessing over one’s image can cause. I also want to find some sources that discuss how Instagram is healthy for women and gives them an outlet to express themselves. I am going to try and attempt to contact an “Instagram famous” model because they experience the effects of Instagram in a much larger sense. Someone with a larger following on Instagram can also discuss the effects of the mean comments that usually come with having a lot of followers.

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Short Assignment #2

Annotated Bibliography:

Schreiber K. Body conscious. Psychology Today. 2015;48(5):34-35.

            This article focuses on the consequences of “promoting a thin and ultra-athletic physique” which is a different side of the argument than the source in American Fitness Magazine which talks about the importance of showing fitness on social media. Instead of “fitspo” giving women a source of inspiration, it made women push themselves trying to look like the models in the photos and just feel hopeless about their efforts when they don’t get the results and never feel good enough. The author talks about a study by Bryan Karazsia which shows the effects of women viewing these popular magazines and fitness social media accounts by having them discuss their body image satisfaction before and after viewing the photos. The majority have the women felt less satisfied with their bodies after viewing them and said they wish they could have the thin and muscular look that the models have which can lead to women over-exerting and under-nourishing themselves.

 

Wiedeman r. The prom queen of instagram. New York. 2015;48(20):18.

            This article from New York Magazine focuses on Lilli Hymowitz, a 16-year-old girl who was considered the most popular girl in New York City due to her Instagram following. It discusses how people who she didn’t even know existed knew many details about her life such as where her tattoos were located, who she was dating, and what parties she was at every night. Much of her success has to do with her economic privilege which shows how people follow others on Instagram just to envy them and their lifestyles. This obsession over “celebrities” on Instagram can cause people to try and change themselves to be like the User they follow in order to gain popularity. The source also reveals that truth that although someone can have a large online following and act as if they are happy there can be a completely different story behind the scenes. When asked to invite people to a dinner party she admitted that she was only actually friends with about 10 people despite having thousands of followers that praise her. The article reiterates the idea that is found in some of the other sources that there are “rules” of Instagram as Hymowitz always strived to keep the number of people she followed low to appear more exclusive and deletes photos that don’t get enough likes.  

 

Calderon-Douglass B. Filter. Bitch Magazine: Feminist Response to Pop Culture. 2016(69):40-44.

            In this article, Calderon-Douglass discusses how Instagram is place where all of her interest come together and is a place for self-love and promotes feminist ideals. She goes on to give examples of the accounts that she follows and the type of content they post. One of the examples is the user @thebiggirlscode who she says is “one of many Latinas online merging self-love, culture, art, and politics with an unambiguously intersectional feminist voice.” She discusses how important it is for women to see good role-models and people who resemble them on social media so they know they are important and beautiful. This article discusses the positive attributes to Instagram and all the ways it can help spread good ideals and gives examples of accounts to back up her claims. She says that Instagram is a place to empower women and promote feminism which differs from some of the articles which says the app puts women down and decreases self-confidence.

 

BARRERA C. LOVE YOUR SKIN YOU'RE IN. (cover story). American Fitness. 2016;34(2):32-34.

            This article is from American Fitness Magazine and features Nicole Mejia, a social media phenomenon who uses Instagram to spread healthy and holistic regimens and ideas. In the interview she says, “Being fit isn’t about being a specific size, shape or body fat percentage” and “self-acceptance is at the core of any change that you are going to make in your life” which spreads the idea of body-confidence and doesn’t fat shame. Mejia began a campaign using the hashtag, “#FitandThick” in order to show you don’t have to be stick-thin to be healthy. Having diversity on social media is important so young women don’t just see the same body-type over and over and think that is how they must look to be beautiful. Mejia is an example of how Instagram can be used in a positive manner that brings women confidence instead of putting them down. This article focuses on the positive side of Instagram and doesn’t address the problems the app can cause like in some of the other articles.

 

Lup K, Trub L, Rosenthal L. Instagram #Instasad?: Exploring associations among instagram use, depressive symptoms, negative social comparison, and strangers followed. CyberPsychology, Behavior & Social Networking. 2015;18(5):247-252.

            This article discusses the consequences of social media and how it affects the users’ psychological well-being. Evidence in the article shows that following strangers on apps such as Instagram can cause users to compare themselves to them and feel that their life is inferior which can be detrimental to someone’s self-worth. The fact that Instagram users also only see one picture that is edited and chosen carefully by the poster can also cause them to feel inferior because they think the poster’s lifestyle is lavish when in reality it could just be a one-time photo-op. The results of the study discussed in the article shows that many people harshly compare themselves to the users they follow which can increase depressive symptoms and feelings of loneliness. These findings fall in line with some of the results that were found in the other articles that discuss the dangerous effects of self-comparison on Instagram on the self-confidence of the users.

 

 Olya G, Tauber M. PLUS-SIZE AND PROUD! (cover story). People. 2015;83(22):70-74.

            This article is from People Magazine and focuses on Tess Holiday, the largest model to ever sign with a major agency. She is an example of how Instagram can be positive for women because she was discovered on her Instagram account by a modeling agency and now has the power to reach an even larger audience and spread her word of body positivity. She launched a social media campaign with the hashtag, “#effyourbeautystandards” which supports the message of self-acceptance. In the article, Holiday tells the story of how she was bullied as a child and really didn’t start to find self-confidence until she found outlets such as Facebook and Instagram to express herself. Unlike some of the other articles, this one focuses purely on the positive side of Instagram and doesn’t mention any downsides. It discusses how Instagram can be a tool to increase the confidence and self-worth of girls unlike some of the articles which talk about how the app leads to hypersexualization of young girls and can cause confidence and self-worth issues.

 

Ridgway JL, Clayton RB. Instagram unfiltered: Exploring associations of body image satisfaction, instagram #Selfie posting, and negative romantic relationship outcomes. CyberPsychology, Behavior & Social Networking. 2016;19(1):2-7.

            This source explores how body image satisfaction affects selfie-posting and whether Instagram users promoting their body image through Instagram posts can increase the risk of Instagram-related conflict and affect romantic relationships. The authors are trying to expose the “dark side” of Instagram so this source does not mention any of the positive things that can come from the app as some of the other sources do. The authors write that according to existing research, “users are likely to share images of one’s self to attract mates or to express dominance” which is different than some of the other sources which say it can be a form of self-expression and can boost confidence. The results of the study show that body image satisfaction is positively associated with Instagram selfie posting and that selfie posting is associated with Instagram-related conflict. These findings reveal that when people post photos of them displaying their body it can conflict and bullying rather than positive feedback and acceptance

 

Steinmetz K. Teen girls describe the harsh unspoken rules of online popularity. Time.com. 2014:1.

            This article uses information about negative experiences on social media that was found through surveying girls ages 13 to 24. From the information that was gained, the author states, “while social media may be place to make fun connections, it can also be just another way to feel isolated and insecure.” The article contains a list that compiles the “unspoken rules” of instragram as told by the girls who were surveyed. It includes rules such as having a lot of followers, remove photos that don’t get enough likes, have good captions, time posts for optimal like-getting, don’t post more than one picture in a day. This article showcases how seriously girls can take Instagram and how easy it is to judge other users if they don’t follow the common rules. The information found in the survey reiterates upon the fact that Instagram can be an unhealthy environment for girls and makes them question their self-worth which is an idea that is found in some of the other articles as well.

 

Mascheroni G, Vincent J, Jimenez E. "Girls are addicted to likes so they post semi-naked selfies": Peer mediation, normativity and the construction of identity online. Cyberpsychology. 2015;9(1):30-43.

            In this article, the authors discuss the incredibly large role that online social networking plays in the lives of teenagers. Through the collection of qualitative data, they examine the common characteristics and activities that are seen throughout the average teenager’s online social media persona. It was found that many Instagram photos that are posted are edited in order “to convey an ideal impression of their self rather than reality” which is another method to appeal to a larger audience in order to gain more likes. The authors write about how girls now “link their social acceptance with their approval of their online” and think about the number of likes they get “as symbolic tokens of social inclusion.” Like some of the other articles, this one also discusses how the sexualization of girls on social media has also led to more sexting and scandals including girls having photos spread and the bullying that follows. The article also addresses the positive side of Instagram as girls say the app can cause “liberating and empowering” feelings that come from maintaining their online appearance. Unlike in some of the other articles, the authors address how boys view social media as well and discuss the double standards and differences of the photos and accounts between the two genders.

 

Sales NJ. How social media is disrupting the lives of american girls. Time. 2016;187(6):26-27.

            Sales’ article focuses on the adverse effects that social media can have on younger girls. It discusses how girls now feel more of an urge to gain attention on social media because in this age of technology many interactions are conducted virtually. There is a quote from a college-aged girl that reads, “It’s to get the likes. Everything’s about the likes,” which demonstrates how girls are willing to get edgier with their content just for the attention and validation that is gained through likes and comments. The sexualization of girls is beginning earlier and earlier due to social media. The most famous people on Instagram are often celebrities whose most liked photos are ones where they are showing a lot of skin which just encourages young girls to do the same. According to this article, while these sexualized photos may gain praise from the opposite sex and friends they also can lead to slut shaming and bullying amongst their peers. The article also addresses the other side of the argument by some feminists that say girls posting provocative photos are just expressing their sexuality and if the woman is choosing to do so voluntarily she should be praised for her confidence. This article relates to the others because it discusses the dangers of girls holding the opinions of others in such high regard and also the sexualization that girls are experiencing throughout social media. 

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Short Assignment #3

Interview:

This Interview is with Kobi Jae (@kobi_jae on Instagram)

1.Is Instagram the app that you feel most comfortable expressing yourself on? How is it different from other apps like Facebook and twitter?

I wouldn’t necessarily say “the most comfortable expressing myself on”, but it’s definitely a unique experience for me, being that it’s mostly visual. It’s also my largest platform, so while I would use Facebook to communicate with people I know, Instagram is more of a public profile where I interact with a lot of strangers. I really don’t use Twitter, so I can’t comment on that. 

 

2. Do you feel any need to "fit in" on Instagram?

No I don’t feel a need to “fit in”, but I do have a sense of responsibility about the following and platform that I have on there. I think carefully about everything I post, because I want to make sure that i’m expressing myself in a way that corresponds with my ethics and value system. I wouldn’t say it’s censoring myself, so much as it is using that pressure (for lack of a better word) as a way of keeping myself accountable, and to ensure i’m constantly analysing and unpacking my views on the world. 

 

3. Have you ever been bullied or felt victimized because of your Instagram?

I’ve actually been really lucky to fly under the radar of a lot of bullies and trolls - which is very unusual for a vocal fat activist to avoid being targeted. I have had a few hateful comments about being fat and “gross”, but i’m very quick to block and delete. I understand that people who do and say those things are not able to have their minds changed, and I don’t want to validate their existence by engaging with them.

 

4. Do you post pictures according to what you think will get the most likes or just post whatever you like?

I tend to just post whatever I like, but to be perfectly honest I do consider “my brand” as a big picture concept, to some extent. Mostly because I am working towards my own indie plus size clothing business, so an engaged following is only a benefit for my future. Also, I work in advertising and have a naturally curious mind about stuff like that. I am sometimes interested in seeing what sort of things do get more engagement, but all in all I would rather a smaller yet more engaged following than the opposite. I’m not trying to play the instafame game.

 

5. When did you join Instagram and how/when did you start to get such a large following? I’m not exactly sure, I think somewhere around 2010/2011. I actually thought it was just a photo filtering app, and didn’t realise for ages that my photos were being posted anywhere! I think around 3/4 years ago - not long after I started blogging - I began to be semi-regularly featured on internet lists of “people to follow”. Buzzfeed was my first really big one, and my following grew by 2-3K in 24 hours. It was surprising and very humbling. 

 

6. One of my sources claims that there are "rules" on Instagram such as you must have more followers than following, post at a certain time of day, not post multiple times a day, and delete photos that don't get enough likes. Do you follow any of these rules?

I would never, ever delete a photo that doesn’t get “enough” likes, in much the same way that I would never untag myself from a photo that I thought was “unflattering”. I just can’t do it - I can’t take myself that seriously. I tend to post at certain times because the majority of my followers are American (i’m Australian) and so, if I want to have conversations and engage with my following, I need to be online at the same time as them. This isn’t a hard and fast rule for me, just something I keep in mind. Instagram is a 2 way street, in my world: I really value the people I interact with, I don’t just post narcissistically and wait for the accolades to come pouring in. I want to converse, sometimes about trivial things (like lipstick or whatever), and sometimes (more often than not) about the big stuff.  

 

7. Has your self-confidence increased since using Instagram?

Definitely, but I really can’t claim it’s just because of Instagram. Like I said, I started blogging and that put me in touch with a lot of communities surrounding fat activism and plus size fashion, and all of my studies and awakenings in those areas have contributed to my self-confidence increasing. But, yes - those connections were made much, much easier by being able to find people on Instagram. I love hashtags for that exact reason, and I use a lot of them. Like I said, it’s a 2 way street. People can find me using them, but I can find other people, too. 

 

8. Do you think there is enough diversity on social media and in mainstream media? 

In mainstream media - absolutely not, not even close. But on social media, it’s hard to say. If you’re looking in the right places, there is lots of diversity to be found. But we could and should all do more to use whatever platforms we have to push representatives of marginalised groups to the foreground. This is part of why I started the account @whatfatgirlsACTUALLYwear - aside from being a fashion resource for plus size women, I wanted it to be a space to promote people of all backgrounds and with all different styles, and to generate its own community of like-minded people. 

 

9. Do you think there is a double standard when it comes to men and women posting provocative pictures on Instagram?

I don’t really have an opinion on “provocative” pictures, of any gender. I do think the double standard on the right to expose our breasts is absolutely ludicrous, and our society needs to take a long, hard look at itself on many issues - this included. 

 

10. Do you think it's unhealthy for young girls to be so obsessed with how they are presented online?

I’m going to have to say yes, but I also think that it doesn’t have to be. Autonomy and self-representation in an online space can and should be empowering and enlightening, but there are too many other factors in our current culture for that to be the norm, especially for young girls. We need to stop commodifying female bodies and we need to cut it out with the extreme celebrity worship culture. We also need to find real and practical ways to get young people developing better relationships with their bodies, and to large-scale change the way we all think and talk about bodies - whether it be weight, size, shape, colour, decoration, dress, abilitity etc. The current dialogue that we all perpetuate on a daily basis is very destructive, and benefits nobody but huge corporations. 

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